- Add enginePaused field to Settings type with soft-pause semantics (drain queue, don't kill agents)
- Gate scheduler, triage, auto-merge, and periodic merge retry on enginePaused
- Add Pause and Stop buttons to dashboard Header replacing single toggle
- Wire enginePaused state through App with optimistic toggle and unpause resume logic
- Add tests for scheduler, triage, dashboard CLI, Header, and App covering pause behavior